Whew!  The celebrations of the holidays are already fading to a wonderful, crazy blur of festive memories.

But memories matter.

Because memories give birth to the roots that keep us connected to the sacred and meaningful moments that sprang up throughout the holiday season.

So many good times were shared with our Monday & Thursday community.  Food, presents, reflections, affirmations, and blessings.  Gifts given with great love.

But what truly makes celebrating the holidays with our community special is not found in the traditional revelry.  It is formed by the way that we live life together.

During the recent holiday season, the day I was planning a Christmas dinner with our Thursday night family of guys ended up being the same evening that my youngest son was participating in the winter concert at his school.  It was his debut public trumpet performance with the school’s beginning band.  And he was very excited.

So we combined these two very important events into one evening of celebration.  We met at our house before and after the concert to enjoy food, gifts, dessert, and Mexican hot chocolate.  And a some of our guys came to the two-hour elementary school band concert with us.


Developing community in our homes is not about hosting and entertaining.  At it’s core it is about sharing all parts of our lives together.

Not just inviting people into our home, but into our life.

This year we’ll enjoy many meals around The Table, but we will also show up for each others’ significant life events.

Band performances, birthday parties, graduations, engagements, weddings, business ventures, professional/vocational accomplishments, religious sacraments, little league games, and school concerts.

Together we’ll laugh and cry, celebrate and mourn, cheer each other on and pick each other up.

It is how we will live hope, peace, joy, and love in 2016.

It may not be an easy year.  Or a happy year.  But it will be good.

Published by Wendy Kessler

The table is my favorite place to gather. It is where family & friends are nourished by good food and good conversation, as the sacred and the ordinary intersect over meals served daily.


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